How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 06:00
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
What is the difference between Michael Corleone’s marriage to Apollonia Vitelli and Kay Adams?
Hangs out with loser friends.
What I need from you?
Ask yourself:
Why is the government destroying the homeless instead of helping them?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
How do I become an intelligent man?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
That's it for today.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
What is the definite integral of x^x from 0 to 2?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Are there girls here who like group sex?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Why do men like BBW? What is the attraction?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Does not procrastinate.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Can you make a fake K-pop group? It can be with any idols.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Procrastinates a lot.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Making more friends is a goal.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?